What is standing between you and love that is worthy of you?
Twelve minutes. It ends by naming which of four women has been making the choices in your love life.
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You're successful.
You're healthy.
You have great friends.
You take fabulous girls' trips together.
If you have grown children, they genuinely love hanging out with you.
You have your yoga or your pilates or your pickleball crew.
Your dog loves you.
You love your home.
For the most part, everything in your life is pretty great.
Except for this last piece: the love that is meant for you, the love that is worthy of you, the love that lets you be fully you and fully loved. And right now, it's the one that matters most.
The Extraordinary Love Method™
I work at the level where insight and knowledge don't reach. You can spend a lifetime in therapy, collecting aha moments, and then something happens and you are right back to who you were ten years ago, because nothing ever replaced the old wiring.
Knowing something and having it be different have almost nothing to do with each other. That is where my work starts.
Clarity isn't luxury. It's a prerequisite.
We clear what has kept you in the same relationships over and over again, and then we ask: Who are you now?
We create the life and the love that are meant for you at the same depth the old wiring used to occupy, so it holds.
You fall in love with yourself again. You trust yourself, hold your boundaries, say what you need, and every relationship you have gets richer. You embody who you are now, and you love, live and lead from this identity, this frequency.
And the beautiful thing is, this is weeks, not months, not years.
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The ELI answers the question you have been circling for months, maybe years, maybe decades: What is actually standing between you and extraordinary love?
Every woman who takes the ELI meets one of four women.
Everything held, nothing solved.
Composed everywhere, armored in love.
The naming never changed the choosing.
CEO of everything, including the relationship.
No. A matchmaker can help you change who you meet, but first I am going to change what you are choosing.
Of course you have. You are probably the most self-aware person you know. You could tell me exactly why you do what you do in love, what happened when you were seven and how it connects to what your mom said, inside out, upside down and in your sleep. And all of it lives in your conscious mind. We are not going back into the story you have told fifty times. We go to the operating system underneath it, where everything you have ever experienced is held, and that is where we clear.
No. Some of the women I work with are single, and some are in a relationship where they have been making themselves smaller to keep it. Either way, the work changes what does the choosing.
The beautiful thing is, this is weeks... not months, not years.
The two of us talk about the love you want and what has been standing between you and it. You do not have to arrive knowing what you want. Almost nobody does. We do that part together.
Client stories
JULIE, 72
“I'm too remarkable for a man who shrinks from my success.
Three marriages behind her, and now with the greatest love she has ever experienced.
JAMI
“I was heartbroken, grieving a 31-year relationship, and completely lost... Riana Malia's Extraordinary Love Method™ changed everything... It helped me heal, find clarity, and gave me the tools to open my heart again... Now, I'm stepping into the dating world with a full heart and ready to find my soulmate... If you're on the fence, just do it... Your next relationship, and your happiness, are worth it!”
MOLLY, 32
“I think it's the most unique approach that I've seen.”
CHRISTIANE
Working with Riana has been a life-changing experience. I have been able to reverse-engineer so many toxic loops, negative thought patterns, while undergoing certain behaviors actions and reactions. It has been purely positive experience for me. If you're willing to put in the work and fly at a higher frequency, you will pull in beautiful people & experiences.
RACHEL, 49
“I still want the validation, but I don't need the validation. The fact that I don't need the validation, that's pretty big.”
EVAN
“I'm starting to see myself clearer.”
SUSAN
I love working with Riana! I have worked with other life coaches and therapist and while all were good, I feel like Riana just gets me a little more. She is helping me through the darkest time of my life. She not only gives me hope that I can work through this, but that I will thrive and be happier than ever.
The woman behind the work
Board-Certified Integrative Neurosomatic Practitioner
The last piece / Watch
The Last Piece™ is my TV show and podcast, streaming on Apple TV, Roku, Amazon and fifteen other platforms. Every conversation turns to the one piece of life a guest has not created yet, and for most of them, that is extraordinary love.
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